Behavior out of a sense of loyalty can follow emotions of bonding or it can damage potential relationships by blocking feelings that are not explored. Loyalty can add to love, parochial interests, and patriotism in a healthy manner. Today's interpersonal and economic climate of "what's in it for me" can cut off relations with negative or toxic people like the sick. For a gentler and kinder nation, families and close connections need to invest in Emotional Banking Units with the disabled as keepers.