Discriminations are to be fought against together and alone until we are accepting and understanding of people not like ourselves. The current debate about the military punishing gay soldiers is about discrimination. What about saying "nice" to describe civilians? Our society, as I see it, is, "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" about a person being nice. Use leadership in making our homeland secure and kind and respectful. Our citizens need to share bio-information if someone is nice more than pleasant company to his target audience. If someone is "big love" in morals and caring for the national spirit or for an individual, we need to spread words meaning goodness to that person. Friendly to a person's sexual aspirations or good company to strangers is a small part of what our society needs to give just desserts to out of kindness to nice people doing good favors for society at large.
