Reading popular culture sources can be a source of sarcasm or enlightenment opportunities. A store's T-shirt comparing ability to remember to love and caring extends into the mainstream of media. People with Attention Deficient not only have difficulty surviving the cut in the classroom, but their spouse material, friends, and original family are making judgments of a negative nature. No one wants to be known as self centered, unaware of their surroundings, or too inconsiderate for relationships.